- I keep dating the wrong kind of men
Think how useful it would be to know what you’ve been drawn to in the past so that you can make conscious choices for the future. I can help you unlock those patterns and identify the kind of person you need to focus on finding. This is about you recognising the ‘red flags’ that you have ignored so often before. You will be saying ‘no’ from now on so that you stop repeating what doesn’t work for you. Become independent and unleash your own potential to choose.
- I am newly single after a long relationship and don’t know how to go about dating and finding a relationship.
Congratulations! You have a whole new life ahead of you. You’re ready to date and possibly find a future partner. Now is the time to discover your vision for the rest of your life and the relationship you want. This is the perfect opportunity to re-discover yourself and build a picture of the dream you want to live. I will support and encourage you to create a life and relationship plan that is unique to you
- I have been on the singles scene a long time and am getting nowhere with finding a partner.
It sounds as though it is time to do something different. Do you know what you really, really want in a relationship? Learn how to become much more dynamic and strategic in your search for a committed relationship. With step-by-step exercises I will guide you towards uncovering your most fundamental requirements - not just in a future partner but in the whole of your life. Allow yourself to dream, then learn how to put those wishes into action.
- My body clock is ticking and I don’t have a partner.
You can become expert at spotting the potential of future partners in a very short time. You will be more focused, confident and pro-active and will become successful in meeting someone who matches not some, but all of your requirements. Stop hoping that things might change and start dating intelligently.
- I lack confidence to date and find a relationship.
You might have had a number of unsuccessful relationships and feel confused about how to face the dating scene. By working together we can develop your skills and knowledge, build your confidence and set some focused actions into motion. You will learn that you can say ‘no’ to what you don’t want so that you can say ‘yes’ to what you do want. Step-by-step a picture will emerge of how you want your life to be. You will immediately have the tools to take your life forward and find the relationships you most desire.
- I don’t know what I want for the second half of my life.
What a great place to be! We can look at what you want to change and the life you want to look back on without regret. Inspire yourself to become the person who has lived that life and found the love that you now seek. Life without learning is a life unlived. It is never too late to start. By reviewing your life up to now we’ll get all the information you need to kick-start yourself into the future. Start right now. Your future is waiting.
- Not only am I alone, but my life is humdrum and mundane.
You’re frustrated because you think your life is boring. Time to make some changes. What are you really passionate about? What makes your heart sing? Are you waiting for a relationship to make your life begin? Do you think having a partner will fix everything? Guess what? You need to fix your life first and the relationship that you desire will then naturally appear. It’s time to step out of your comfort zone and begin to live a life that has energy and momentum. We’ll start with your vision. You build the picture of the life that you want and the relationship that goes with it. Along the way you’ll learn dating and relationship skills and how to live life as a successful single whilst looking for a relationship. So jump off that couch and kick your life into action. I will support, encourage and help you every step of the way. Remember your life can only get better.
- I get stuck in relationships that aren’t right for me.
In hindsight it is so easy to look back and see when we have been stuck in a relationship. Just think how much better it would be if you could learn to look forward and stop repeating the experience. Learn how to spot your ‘danger flags’ so you don’t allow yourself to get into a relationship until you are sure it is the right one for you. It may sound odd, but finding a fantastic relationship can be planned. Have fun allowing yourself to visualise your ideal life and your perfect relationship. Discover what you need to do to put that in place. Shift the balance and become ‘The Chooser’. Don’t leave this, the most important part of your life, to chance.
- I want to be in a relationship but fear losing my independence.
Have you been in a relationship but found your independence compromised? You’ve worked hard to be an independent woman and don’t know if this is compatible with wanting to be in a relationship. Learn to be strategic: you can implement your unique relationship plan by incorporating clear boundaries. By discovering what it means to become a conscious dater you can retain your independence. How? We will work together to identify your essential requirements – these are the foundations on which to build your whole life. Become powerful in knowing how to stand your independent ground in any relationship. Remember - the one you want to be with wants you to be the successful autonomous person that you already are.
- I am so busy, especially with work, that there’s no time to date and find a relationship.
So busy that you have no time for relationships? Your whole life could pass by like that. Learn how to balance your life, and become efficient in dating and finding a relationship. You don’t have the time to give to the losers. We can draw up a relationship plan together that fits your lifestyle. I can help you move strategically towards the relationship that you really. really want. You use all this stuff in work; so now is the time to use it to find your partner of choice!
- Maybe I’m too choosy and that is why I’m still on my own.
So you think you are too choosy. Scout, sort, screen and test; learn the critical 4 steps to Conscious Dating. Do you know what your requirements, needs and wants are in a relationship? Discover what these might be and learn to use the 4 steps effectively in order to find your partner. By working together to investigate and assess your experiences, you will build a life and relationships plan and learn how to implement them.
- I find dating an emotional rollercoaster and want to get off!
Absolutely, dating and relationships can be emotionally tricky. But it depends how you go about them. What about finding a place where you can stay in control? Put the brakes on where things haven’t worked for you in the past and begin to choose how you want any future relationship to progress. Flatten out the ride by learning to scout, sort, screen and test relationships early on, and learn to become a Conscious Dater.
- I don’t know if my soulmate really exists.
I’m here to help you find yours. So how to start? you ask. The answer is, you start with yourself. I work with women who learn to become clear about who they are and exactly what they want in a partner. When you have a picture of the landscape of the life that you want to live, you can learn to put the pieces in place to start living that life. Dating and relationships now start from this reviewed perspective. So if you want to find your soulmate, let me help you start that journey.
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