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 The best decisionI knew that on some level I was stopping myself getting close to potential partners. I previously fell into relationships, and let them just happen to me. Now I am aware of why I made the choices I previously made. I am much clearer about what I want out of life and am confident that I will no longer take such a reactive stance. Previously I had done lots of planning and goal setting on the career front, but the course takes a much more holistic approach to creating a vision of what I want my whole life to look like. In addition and more importantly I also have the tools to make it reality on an ongoing basis. Trisha's non-judgemental style makes it easier to discuss some of the more sensitive issues that come up. She always knows what questions to ask to make you think more, and differently about whatever is being discussed. Logistically, the group sessions worked brilliantly. The course has been invaluable! I now realise I had no clue about what I was doing in my previous dating experience. I am now totally conscious about the choices I make. I felt that I had to come on the course because the idea of analysing and discussing my relationship history filled me with horror. I can now say it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Sarah Davies, Birmingham |
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| Flirting is now a pleasure When I started working with Trisha I wasn’t sure what I wanted in regard to relationships. Nothing had happened for a long, long time on that front. Now I’m a lot more open and less scared about interacting with men – I feel more settled in myself and clear that I can choose. Flirting has become even more of a pleasure as I know I’m setting the boundaries. Trisha’s style is very open, gentle, inviting and supportive. She built a robust platform of trust from which I was able to jump into difficult areas and unravel what I really want in my life. The way Trisha combines a structured programme with personal, very insightful coaching is an extremely powerful combination. It has allowed me to simply stop wasting energy and effort on feeling anxious and uncertain about relationships. A very enjoyable and productive experience. I particularly valued taking the programme with other people. That gave me an extra dimension that added support and made my learning feel more ‘real’. Susan Adamson, Aylesbury |
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| Getting started with dating I had difficulties in starting a relationship and getting past the first few dates. At the start of the coaching I had just met someone and the relationship continues with a man I am attracted to and like immensely. I now have the skills to test whether this can become a long-term committed relationship. I am looking at the relationship in a different way and assessing whether my requirements, needs and wants will be met in the longer term. Since taking the programme I am more confident, empowered and have clarity about what I want and how to get on with my life at the same time. I found Trisha supportive and empathetic. The course was very helpful and a good source of reference for the future and for discovering aspects of myself in relation to relationship. I would highly recommend to anyone looking for a relationship or who is having difficulties in one. Ruth Francis, London |
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| No longer muddling along I felt unsure of how to go about entering into the dating arena or what to expect. What has changed is that I am now aware of different kinds of dating, different ways of meeting new people each with their own likelihood of success. I have learnt that I need to be proactive rather than reactive and not to waste time or energy on people who are not suited to my own list of requirements. Some on going benefits are that I am much more self aware than I was before and I realise when meeting a new person I can choose whether or not to continue the conversation. When I feel indecisive or wondering why things have happened I ask myself “What would Trisha say?” This helps me become more objective about the matter and I can draw on Trisha’s ability to sum a situation up and comment on it. For me, Trisha’s style was brilliant. I would recommend coaching to other people because I found that it clarified where I was in terms of being ready to date again and what kind of relationship I want to pursue at the moment. Without Trisha’s coaching I think I would still be muddling along, hoping for the best. With a plan, I can be proactive and choose the people I want to date. Gina Roccato, London |
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| Now I know where I am going with relationships When I started working with Trisha I had just finished a 25-year relationship and had decided that at my age I needed to do something fairly quickly about my personal life before life passed me by. The person who had emerged from my relationship was not the person who had embarked on it all those years ago. I have been encouraged to look at who I am. The results are often surprising. I now have a vision of what I want out of life and what I value in a partner. I have realised just how much I have to think about before I am ready to commit to another relationship. The programme will stop me repeating the same mistakes I’ve already made once too often. We all get too lost in the rat-race to think about where the race is going to take us. Trisha is above all very encouraging and sympathetic, with a no-nonsense approach. It is through her quiet assurance that you will find the answers. She makes you realise that you don’t have to face the future on your own when you are feeling very alone and vulnerable. This is a life-changing experience; and it is your life that has to change before it’s going to be the life you want. Wendy Jordon, Somerset |
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| Found my perfect partner Having been divorced for a number of years I had a year earlier left a relationship I had been in for three years. Looking back I don’t know why I allowed it to go on for so long. Since taking the singles relationship coaching programme for the first time in my life I have a clear vision of what I want both for myself as an individual and in a relationship. Along the way I have learned a lot of skills about the dating scene, how to stay focus and not be diverted from my goals. I am no longer wasting my time hoping that things might be different, but making conscious choices about whether I want to develop any particular relationship. I took the programme as group teleclasses and really enjoyed working in a group with others. Trisha’s coaching style is supportive and fun but also rigorous in getting us all to look at how patterns of the past need not be repeated. I have and will recommend other singles to work with Trisha. I think what she is offering is a very valuable experience which has long-term implications for my future choices. Since taking the programme I have been in a relationship for over a year and it is perfect! Leora Pell, Hertfordshire |
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| Clearing the rubbish – ready to date I had been on my own for 18 months and was dreading the thought of socialising, let alone dating. What is different now is that I have some clear thoughts about my relationship goals, how I will go about achieving them and how to keep on tract. Socialising along with dating has been put into perspective so that it doesn’t feel like the big deal it once was. Relationship coaching it about clearing your way through the rubbish of life; I’ve identified what’s important to me. Trisha makes it a challenge but that’s what I needed. Coaching is great if you are at a ravine with no bridge and like the help to get you across; it can provide you with the tools, equipment and identify the helping hands you need. It was fun! Bonnie Rana, London |
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